This is Alim, he is a local Uyghur of Kashgar. We met last night when I was a bit lost and impressed by his English skills, and not to mention his adorable’ness…we’ve become fast friends.
I spent the day at the hospital visiting his grandparents. The room of women told me my headscarf “makes” me “beautiful”.
When I strange man came into the room, a husband of a roommate, his mother quickly covered her face with her own scarf and then arranged herself to sit with her back to him. I am finally understanding what this is all about. It’s not shame, but rather not letting every strange man enjoy looking at your beauty.
It’s taken a little time, a little discouragement…but I’m really beginning to love these people.
The little girl was very curious of my camera. So I took her photo and shared with her. Little Uyghur girl’s hair is kept short. Alim told me this is just based on traditions.
Kashgar, I will have to leave you in a few days…but by all means…I will be returning to work you and Hotan for everything its worth. With fresh eyes and a break from China.